Sunday, September 28, 2025

Winsome Witness 4. Overcoming Hate with Love

On September 10, the disunity within the United States of America was highlighted once again by the assassination of Charlie Kirk.  The life of this young husband, father, and founder of Turning Point, USA was taken by an assassin’s bullet while Charlie was engaging in public dialog with college students at Utah Valley University.  Since that day, many who knew Charlie have been honoring him with praise for his bold witness for Jesus Christ and his love for America, and especially for the youth on our college campuses.

When we began this series of blogs on a “Winsome Witness” in July, we discussed our calling as “the salt of the earth” [Part 1 HERE.] and in August, “Being Salt in Controversy” [Part 2 HERE.].  Little did we know that we would be remembering the life and “winsome witness” of Dwayne Frank who went home to Heaven on September 7 [Part 3 HERE.].  And then, three days later, we mourned the assassination of God’s witness for the Gospel, Charlie Kirk.  So, in Part 4, we will consider how the love of God inspires Christ-followers to be “winsome witnesses” of the love of Christ in the face of hate and death.

The Gospel: 
Harsh Truth?

Charlie Kirk was a lover of God, His Word, and everyone he tried to reach with Truth.  Still, many are criticizing Kirk’s approach as having been too harsh and disrespectful.  Granted,  Charlie repeatedly made clear that his primary intention was to present his witness for Christ and the Gospel (“good news”) of salvation in a genuine and encouraging way.  However, his application of the Gospel message to various moral and social issues was not always favorably received by everyone across the diverse political and ethnic landscape of America.   

Charlie would have been the first to admit he was not perfect.  One can find recordings in which, during the heat of the moment, his words appeared inappropriate and may have hurt some of his listeners.  Add to these the snippets of Charlies speeches, often taken out of context and propagated in social media.  Regardless, it is easy to resort to fault-finding to evade a convicting message.  We believe that most of Charlie’s critics who judged his words as “hate speech” did so, not because they have reason to reject Charlie, but because they have not found justification and peace in their relationship to God.  To them in their broken spiritual and emotional state, even loving words of moral truth can appear hurtful and hateful. 

“Good News,
“Hate Speech?”

How can we account for the fact that what Almighty God and His children intend to be a witness for “Good News” is labeled by some as “hate speech?” The history of Christianity according to the Bible account helps us answer this perplexing question.  For example, the Apostle Peter who just days earlier had denied Christ and had run away in fear, suddenly began to boldly proclaim the Gospel of the Cross to the Jews and people of different nations and ethnic groups (Book of Acts, Ch. 2).  Some considered Peter's message as "hate speech." However, about three thousand in the crowd repented of their sin and were saved! 

It is no surprise that the Gospel is considered by many as hate speech.  The Apostle Paul who was hated, persecuted, and eventually martyred for his faith wrote, For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God (1 Corinthians 1: 18).  And, within hours of His crucifixion, Jesus prepared His followers with these words (John 15:18-19):  If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.  If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own.  As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world.  That is why the world hates you.

Had Charlie simply preached a more “user-friendly Gospel” that “God is love, and God wants us to be happy in what we choose to do for ourselves,” few would have heard and responded in hate and violence.  But Charlie’s message was like the message of Stephen, the first Christian martyr (Acts 7).  According to Acts 7: 54, when Stephen’s audience heard him say they were disobedient to God, they were enraged and they gnashed their teeth at him. Then, they covered their ears and, yelling at the top of their voices, they all rushed at him (v. 57).  Finally, they drove Stephen out of the city and stoned him to death. 

Like Stephen, Charlie boldly confronted his listeners and urged them to evaluate their personal beliefs in light of God’s Word.  As we noted in Part 2 of this series [Click HERE to read.], when Christ-followers take a firm stand against immoral or unethical claims or actions, they are acting as the "salt" that preserves our culture against decay.  However, they also risk being misunderstood and even under threat of violence and death.

Murder of God’s Messengers
Ultimately, like so many historic Christian martyrs, and like many more around the world today, Charlie was hated because of the Gospel message he presented.  His message was that God came in human flesh as Jesus Christ to reconcile rebellious, sinful mankind regardless of their socioeconomic status, ethnicity, religion, or political party (John 3: 14-21).  This Jesus lived a sinless life, died in our place as a substitutionary sacrifice for sinners, and rose again from the dead in victory over sin and death.  All who accept Jesus’s death and resurrection by faith and reason as payment for their sin can be saved from eternal separation from God (Romans 10: 8-13).  When a person submits to God in this way and is enlightened by God’s Word through His Spirit, he or she begins to put off the old person and lifestyle.  The Bible describes this transformation in mind, body, and spirit in Galatians 5: 19-23:

Now the deeds of the flesh [the old, sinful nature] are evident, which are: sexual immorality, impurity, indecent behavior, idolatry, witchcraft, hostilities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions,  envy, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the [new life in the] Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

Hatred Is Rooted in Our Hearts

Charlie Kirk recognized that he was engaged in a war, …not against flesh and blood, but against… the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6: 12).”  The weapons, or “flaming darts,” of spiritual darkness include hate, lies, deception, accusation, isolation, doubt, distraction, masquerade, pleasure, unforgiveness, and fear.  If we allow these weapons of Satan to penetrate the spiritual armor God provides and commands us to put on (Ephesians 6: 10-18), our minds become confused about who we really are and who our enemy really is.  Then, we mistakenly turn against others—our brother or sister in Christ, our spouse, our neighbor, our pastor, or our president and other leaders.  Sound familiar?  Sound close to home?

Let’s be honest!  (I’ll admit, I am speaking from experience.)  The inner attitudes and thoughts that I battle are the seeds that could grow into actions that make the daily news—hateful rhetoric, riots, and murder.  James 1: 14-15 describes
a progression that occurs when we are “carried away” by our passions which, when they have conceived, give birth to sin which leads to death.  In Matthew 5: 22, we read Jesus’s claim: whoever says, 'You fool,' shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell.  Notice that Jesus takes the sixth commandment, “Thou shall not murder,” and goes to the source within the human heart where the underlying sins of pride, hate, and envy are rooted.  Sin within the heart if unchecked leads to hateful speech and even murder.  To this we should cry, “God help us!”  And He will.

Choosing Better Weapons
But God through Christ and His Gospel pleads with us:
“Please don’t think that way.
Turn from your selfish, sinful ways.
They will destroy you. 
I have something better and
I want you to have it because I love you.”

In our culture where hateful hearts, violent rhetoric, guns, knives, and bombs are subjects of our daily news, true Christ-followers have access to three more powerful “weapons”—thankfulness, repentance, and forgiveness.  Each of these “weapons” are necessary if we are to gain victory against our fleshly passions and the flaming darts of spiritual wickedness hurled at us.

Thankfulness is our weapon or prescription against our tendency toward discontent, envy, boasting, and covetousness.  Thankfulness for what God has already provided frees our minds to realize the blessings of freedom and material provisions we have in Christ and in our country; and, for those both living and dead who have made these blessings possible.

Repentance is our second weapon.  When a disposition of fear, envy, or covetousness threatens our outlook, we need to be quick to repent—i.e. to confess (say what God says about) our lack of faith and any sin, and turn from it toward faith in our loving God.  Not easy, but in every circumstance, by prayer …[we are to let our requests] be made known to God, and the peace of God which surpasses all comprehension, will guard [our] hearts and [our] minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4: 7).

Forgiveness and a forgiving spirit may be the most powerful weapon of all.  It is the pure expression of God’s love, spoken through His Son while nailed to a Roman cross when He said, Father forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing (Luke 23: 34).  Charlie’s wife, Erika, chose to forgive Tyler Robinson who shot and killed her beloved husband.  Her statement of forgiveness is a powerful testimony and “winsome witness” of God’s love.



Charlie Kirk’s assassination on September 10 escorted him into the presence of an estimated 70 million Christians 
believed to have been martyred for their faith since the death of Stephen.

Charlie is quoted as saying, “What God wants from me is a life fighting for truth.  I want to be remembered for courage for my faith.”  He certainly fought hard for truth, and we fondly remember him for his outstanding courage and “winsome witness” right up to the moment God took him home to Heaven.

Further Encouragement:
The month of September has seen many challenging events, both encouraging and disheartening.  Thankfully, when our souls become frustrated and fearful, God stands ready with a three-part prescription from His Word.  During a similar time of turmoil in 2019, I shared my basic “three R’s” as an encouragement—not “Readin’, ‘Ritin’, and ‘Rithmetic;” but instead, REPENT, REJOICE, and RECONCILE.   [Read more HERE.]

Sunday, September 21, 2025

Winsome Witness 3. Celebrating the Life of Dwayne Frank

I feel like I’m on the front porch of heaven.
I feel that way today. 
– Rev. David Graham

Yesterday, I worshiped at Grace Baptist Church, Cedarville, Ohio, our home church for 33 years, until we moved to Wooster, OH, in 2012.  The occasion was the celebration of the life of Dwayne Frank, a dear brother in Christ, and former colleague at Cedarville University.  Dwayne entered heaven and into the embrace of his Savior on September 7, 2025.  As we honored Dwayne’s life so dedicated to His Lord Jesus; indeed, it seemed we were sitting “on the front porch of heaven.”

I first met Dwayne Frank in 1979 when I joined the faculty of (then) Cedarville College.  Dwayne had arrived in Cedarville nearly 20 years earlier, having come as a student in 1956 and then as faculty member in our Education Department, in 1968.  I was privileged at first to work with Dwayne while I taught our science-math education methods course.  My students learned principles of classroom and laboratory teaching through me (I hoped); and then, Dwayne and colleagues guided them in their classroom student teaching experience.

One of Dwayne’s education students, John Hart, named “gentleness” as a fruit of the Spirit that best described his mentor.  John said yesterday, “I caught more than I was taught.”  During his times in Dwayne’s classroom, or traveling with Dwayne on mission in China, or during many times in Dwayne and wife JoAnne’s home, John said by observing Dwayne’s life, he caught how it looks to be a loving husband, father, and servant of others outside his home. 

As a college professor, Dwayne was a gentle servant to his colleagues.  I was privileged to serve on academic committees with Dwayne, and I learned from his wise and soft-spoken service.  Dwayne also loved our local church, and we were blessed by his Spirit-filled leadership of singing in our worship services.  He was a godly example to me and other deacons as a man who loved every opportunity to serve our pastoral staff and our members as a caring deacon.

My friend Dwayne, was a winsome witness through his gentle service in his home, his church, and on campus because he respected and feared his God.  Dwayne’s “fear of God” was a fear of  grieving others by his behavior, and ultimately, grieve the Holy Spirit of God.   His life showed us the meaning of Psalm 128: 1-4:

How blessed is everyone who fears the LORD,
            Who walks in His ways.

When you shall eat of the fruit of your hands,
            You will be happy and it will be well with you.
Your wife shall be like a fruitful vine
            Within your house,
            Your children like olive plants
            Around your table.
Behold, for thus shall the man be blessed
            Who fears the LORD.
 

Our LORD has honored Dwayne’s longtime reverent obedience to Him by blessing his and JoAnn’s parenting of their three daughters, Stephanie, Sandra, and Shelly, and making their home a godly haven to all who visited.  During years past and in recent years, Abby and I have enjoyed several refreshing times of fellowship and prayer in Dwayne and JoAnn’s home in Lakeland, FL.  I will never forget the many phone conversations between Dwayne and I which always left me encouraged in my spirit—indeed, as if we had been conversing “on the front porch of Heaven.”  Dwayne had trusted Christ’s sacrifice on the Cross and His resurrection victory over sin and death, and he was long-ready to meet His Savior.

Yesterday, we heard from multiple generations of Dwayne and JoAnn’s family representing six grandchildren and ten grandchildren.  Representatives of each generation shared how Dwayne and JoAnn had shown the aroma of Christ through selfless love for them; and it has been their desire to have godly homes for their families.  Behold, for thus shall the man be blessed who fears the LORD.

Although we have tried, it is impossible for us to give a deserving tribute to my friend Dwayne.  So, I include a few links for those who wish to hear the Celebration of the Life of Dwayne Frank.
We will close with the promise of our prayers for JoAnn and family, and a prayerful psalm that we hope will be a fitting comfort to each of them:

O satisfy us in the morning with Your lovingkindness,
            That we may sing for joy and be glad all our days.
Make us glad according to the days You have afflicted us,
            And the years we have seen evil.
Let Your work appear to Your servants
            And Your majesty to their children.
Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us;
            And confirm for us the work of our hands;
            Yes, confirm the work of our hands.


Links to the Celebration of Dwayne Frank’s Life:

Full Service Online:  Click HERE.
David Carr, son-in-law:  Click
HERE.
Greg Frank, nephew:   Click
HERE.
Stephanie, daughter:  Click
HERE.
John Hart, former student:  Click
HERE.
Melvin Frank, brother:  Click
HERE.
Paul Jackson, Dwayne’s pastor (1975-1992): Click
HERE.
Granddaughters, Jenn & Jessie:  Click
HERE.
Dave Carr, representing sons-in-law:  Click
HERE.
Bob Beikert & Jeff Beste, leading in worship:   Click
HERE.
David Graham, Dwayne’s pastor (1992-2004): Click
HERE.

Obituary:  Click HERE.

Dedication:
This blog is dedicated to all its readers who have been reminded of the sting of their own loss, perhaps of a dear husband, wife, child, or a beloved friend.  We hope you have found comfort in the words and songs in honor of Dwayne and for the comfort of his family.  We welcome you to use "Comment" link below for any words of comfort or questions you might have as to how it is that a memorial service can be a "celebration of life" for those who know Christ who takes the sting out of death and the grave (1 Corinthians 15: 55-58).

Read More on "A Winsome Witness"
See Part 4.  "Overcoming Hate with Love," click HERE.