I know a man in Christ who is mourning the loss
of his beloved cousin. He was several years younger than her. They had grown up together on neighboring
farms managed jointly by their fathers. His father tried to lead his family on a
Christ-centered foundation; but her father gave little or no effort toward
leading his family to faith in Christ. As
they entered adulthood, their communication ceased except for rare conversations
at family gatherings. These brief
encounters revealed that the girl he had once known had become hardened,
saddened, and without a God-centered source of hope and joy.
Then, three years ago, the two cousins reestablished more frequent communication when he
initiated regular phone conversations and sent cards and letters. This year, during the month of August, she
mourned the death of a man with whom she had lived for over 40 years. During her mourning, she granted her cousin a
visit to her home, and she received his sympathy and comfort. She listened politely as he humbly spoke of
God’s unfailing grace and love that is available to all who open their hearts
to Him. He encouraged her to establish a
daily routine of rest, good nutrition, and regular reading about God’s love and
comfort found in the Bible he had given her.
He remembered emphasizing the theme, “Hope in God because He cares for
you.”
She lived barely two months after the loss of her partner. Aside from occasional contact with her
neighbor, it appears that her only close companion was her dog.
All of us experience the loss of loved ones through death. But, this man that I know in Christ remained
deeply concerned about something that was missing in his cousin’s life--something
that would likely determine her eternal destiny. What was it? And why was he so deeply concerned? Finally, how could this man be so sure that
his cousin would not have gone to heaven when she died? What follows is my effort to answer these questions
based on what I learned from the man that I know in Christ.
What Must We Do to Be Saved?
“Why,” I asked him, “are you so concerned about the eternal destiny of your
cousin?” He reached for his Bible and
asked me if I would agree that the Bible is God’s inspired revelation of Truth to
mankind. I nodded “Yes.” Then, he read
the Bible’s own self-declaration of its authority: …All
Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make
us realize what is wrong in our lives. It
corrects us when we are wrong and trains us for a life that has God’s approval (2 Timothy 3: 16, New Living Translation, and
God’s Word Translation).
Knowing that we agreed on the authority of Scripture, he then referred me to
2 Corinthians 5:1 which states, …if the
earthly tent which is our house is torn down, we have a building from God, a
house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. He explained that each of us has a soul,
representing our personality which resides within our physical body, or
“house.” According to this verse, when
we die, our soul leaves the “house” which then decays (“is torn down”). With an expression of sadness, he explained that
his cousin’s neighbor had found her dead in her home. Yet, according to Scripture, her “person” had
already departed at her death; only her body was found. According to Hebrews 9: 27, God’s judgment will
decide her eternal destiny-- And inasmuch
as it is appointed for men to die once and after this comes judgment.
I responded to his mention of “judgment” with a shiver that he must have
sensed. He reminded me that God does not
send anyone to Hell. People choose this
place. Indeed, God is not willing that any should perish (be separated
from God), but that all should come to
repentance (turning from our sin and living in agreement with God’s Word) (2 Peter 3: 9). Then, we read Romans 6: 23: For the
wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus
our Lord. We agreed that each person
is responsible to accept God’s gift. In
other words, God desires that we “choose Life” (Deuteronomy 30:19).
Next, he referred me to Romans 10: 9-10 (emphasis mine) which explains how a
person responds through faith to God’s transforming power, resulting in His
righteousness (approved standing before God) and salvation from our sin:
…that
if you confess with your mouth Jesus
as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised
Him from the dead, you will be saved;
for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation.
The man I know in Christ then explained that if his cousin had confessed that
she is a sinner in need of a Savior and accepted the free gift of God provided
through Christ, God would see her as one who is clothed in the righteousness of
the sinless Christ Who died in her place on the cross. He smiled as he summarized this Gospel (“God’s
good news”) of Christ as if there were a ray of hope that she may have accepted
God’s gift. Then, his sadness returned
and I wondered again how he could be so deeply concerned about her eternal
destiny?
Compelled by Christ’s Love
In a busy world where so many things compete for our attention, this man I know
in Christ seemed almost fanatical to express so much concern about “the hereafter.” Why was he so compelled to share the Gospel
of God’s love with his cousin? My answer
wasn’t long in coming as he opened his Bible to Luke 16: 19-31. There, Jesus recounts the story of two men,
one rich the other poor. Both men died
and their souls were transported to very different places. The rich man ended up in Hades, not because
he was rich but because he had rejected God during his life on Earth. There Jesus described him as being “in
torment… [and] in agony in this place of flame” (v. 23, 24). The poor man, named Lazarus, a man of faith
in God, “died and was carried away by the angels to Abraham's bosom” (v. 22). There, Lazarus was “being comforted” (v. 25).
In this unusual account, Jesus Christ, the God of Eternity, reveals to us a partial
view of the reality of life after physical death. First, we learn that our eternal destiny depends
upon how we respond to God’s gift of salvation while on Earth. Second, we learn that we do not sleep or
cease to exist after death. Instead, the
souls of those who have died physically are very much alive and able to
experience their surroundings, whether in a place of torment or with God and
other people of faith. When they die,
the unrighteous--those who have rejected God’s gift of righteousness--will be
separated from the righteous by a great
chasm fixed, so that those who wish to come over from here to you will not be
able, and that none may cross
over from there to us (Luke 16: 26).
The man I know in Christ was now teaching me about life after death, and he now
had my rapt attention. There was one more powerful truth that we can glean from
Christ’s revelation. In Luke 16: 27-31,
Jesus reveals that the rich man in torment asks that Lazarus be sent to warn
his family of the impending judgment and eternal torment awaiting them if they
do not respond to the message of the God’s love and salvation. According to the words of Abraham, God has
made every provision through His revelation in creation and in Scripture so
that those who reject His Gift of righteousness while living on Earth are
without excuse when they die (see also Romans 1: 16-24). Yet, according to this account many will
reject these revelations of truth and will remain unbelieving even if someone
were to die and be resurrected from the dead.
In fact, many remained unbelieving even after watching Jesus raise
another man named Lazarus from the dead (John 11); and then, Jesus Himself was
resurrected from the dead (Luke 24:6).
I now realized exactly why this man had been so compelled to share the good
news of Christ with his cousin and others in the family. As if to further inoculate me with his sense
of urgency about those yet living who have been rejecting God’s call to them,
he invited me to read more of the Apostle Paul’s words in 2 Corinthians 5. This time, in verses 10-11, I read,
For we must all appear before the
judgment seat of Christ, so that each of us may receive what is due us for the
things done while in the body, whether good or bad. Therefore, since we know what it means to
fear of the Lord, we persuade men…
We continued reading the rest of 2 Corinthians 5, including verse 14-15 which states
that …the love of Christ compels us…so that those who live might no longer
live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose again on their behalf. Upon hearing this verse, I begin to feel
within my own heart the power of Christ’s love lifting me out of my
self-centeredness to share this man’s concern for lost souls. I was especially challenged by the way Paul’s
words in verses 20-21 (emphasis mine) placed my sense of urgency into a call to
action (emphasis mine):
Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were making an appeal through us; we beg you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. He made Him who knew no sin to be sin on our behalf, so that we
might become the righteousness of God in
Him.
After a period of time to think about these Scriptures, I felt a calm assurance
in my conscience that it was my faith in Christ, not my own good works that had
made me acceptable in God’s eyes. But
also I experienced reverent fear of God’s power and His perfect justice that decides
the fate of every person. How could I
not share in the passion, the compulsion, and the same sense of urgency that this
man I know in Christ has shown for others? How could I not help but want my
loved ones and friends to know the joy of walking with Christ daily and being
assured He will never leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13: 5), even when we walk
through the valley of the shadow of death (Psalm 23: 4).
Not Willing That Anyone Should Perish
I sat with the man I know in Christ for awhile; neither of us spoke. Then, his face beamed with an expression of
hope as he turned and began to share a new insight. Could it be that his cousin had avoided the
place of eternal torment. Maybe she is
now in the presence of Christ. We both
believed that as long as a person responds to God’s invitation for salvation
before death comes, they can be saved. As
the Apostle Paul writes, [God] saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have
done in righteousness, but according to
His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit…(Titus
3: 5).
If we are saved, not by works, but by faith, then a life-long rejecter of God’s
love and mercy can be saved if they admit their need of forgiveness even in the
final minutes of their life? While
pondering this amazing truth, we each remembered an important conversation among
three men who had been crucified by the Romans as common criminals Luke 23:
39-43).
Jesus Christ and two criminals had been sentenced to death. According to Luke, each man was nailed to a
wooden cross where they suffered horribly.
One of the criminals was rudely mocking Jesus. But the other criminal rebuked the abuser
saying, "Do you not even fear God?”
Then, he reminded him that they both deserved to die for their crimes,
but Jesus was innocent. After saying
this, the repentant criminal turned painfully to look at Jesus and said, “Jesus, remember me when You come in Your
kingdom!" And Jesus replied, "Truly I say to you, today you shall be
with Me in Paradise."
How amazing is the love and grace of God through Christ that would welcome this
criminal in the final minutes of his life to be with Him in paradise for eternity. Neither criminal had performed any works to merit
Eternal Life. But one of the criminals
had looked to the cross of Christ, repented of his sin, and asked Jesus to take
him with Him to Paradise. This
conversation between Jesus and a criminal from their crucifixion crosses
underscores the biblical claim that God is not
willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance (2
Peter 3: 9). Truly, God
is not willing. But, before I can be saved I must be willing—willing to (1) agree with God that “I am a sinner,” (2) be
willing to repent (turn from a life of sin), (3) believe that the death and
resurrection of Christ occurred in order to take away my sin, and (4) invite
Christ to come into my life and control my life through His Holy Spirit.
One truth had become very clear to me and to this man I know in Christ: If his cousin had at some point before her
death been willing to accept by faith God’s gift of Eternal Life, then we could
be sure she was now with Jesus in Paradise. The decision had been hers to make.
But, on the other hand, had the God done His part to make His Good News clear
to this dear cousin? I watched his face
become very somber as he related to me how he had explained God’s love to her
in spoken word and through his cards and letters. In one phone conversation, after his cousin’s
partner had been diagnosed with cancer, his cousin’s partner asked him, “Where
is your God when I need Him?” This angry
plea became an open door for the man I know in Christ to graciously respond
that, “Many people in pain like yours have asked this same question.” Rather
than speak at length on the phone to this angry man, he excused himself and
later wrote a letter to both his cousin and her suffering partner that included
the following words:
My answer to “Where is God when you need Him?” is found in God’s Word, the
Bible. Psalm 145, verses 18 and 19 tells
us,
The
LORD is near to all who call upon
Him,
To all who call upon Him in truth.
He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him;
He will also hear their cry and will save them.
God is very near and knows all about us.
God’s will is that we “call upon Him in truth.” God’s first concern for us is not in keeping
rules like going to church. Instead, we
develop a relationship with God by spending time with Him (worshipping and
learning more about Him from His Scriptures).
But, God will not badger us. He has
revealed Himself through creation, in the Bible, through Jesus, and through the
love and concern of other people. It is
up to us to “let him into our lives.”
You must have heard this before, but in Revelation 3: 20 we read Jesus
saying,
'Behold, I stand at the door and knock;
if anyone hears My voice and opens the door,
I will come in to him and will dine with him,
and he with Me.
God is very near, and His Son, Jesus is knocking at the door of our lives. One artist painted the scene as he imagined
it. Notice in the painting, there is no
knob on the door! God waits for us to
open the door of our lives. He expects
us to think for ourselves. When we are
hurting we can cry out to Him….”Where were you God when I needed you?” God will not break when we shout at Him.
The man I know in Christ explained that he had closed his letter with a short
invitation to his cousin and her partner to talk more about this with him. He also included a tiny “Personal Bible” which provides an excellent sequence
of Scripture verses on the nature of man, God’s love for man, and man’s sin and
need of a Savior.
The man that I know in Christ had given his cousin and her partner all of the information
needed to understand and respond to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Indeed, his zeal and passion to reach the
soul of his cousin in a loving way seems to have been driven by nothing less
than the power of God, making him an ambassador
for Christ, as though God were making an appeal through him as he pleaded
to his cousin on behalf of Christ, be
reconciled to God.
Was his beloved cousin, by an act of believing faith in Christ, set free
from the sin and bondage of her troubled life on Earth to find a freedom in
Christ she had never known? Or, did she
continue to reject the love and mercy of God all the way to the end of her
physical life? Regardless of the answers
to these questions, the man I know in Christ now rest assured on two important
truths. First, he knows that God had used
him at least in part to make His loving appeal to this cousin. And second, he was assured by his faith that
God is good and just, and is unwilling
that any should perish.
How About You?
You may have read this article and are left with a sense of confusion,
uncertainty, and even fear. If you have never encountered the “Good
News” or Gospel, let me help. The “Good News” is summarized in
an outline called “Steps to Peace with God” which explains God’s love, our predicament (sin and
separation from God), what Jesus has done to address our predicament, and what
you can do by faith to receive God’s righteousness (right standing with a Holy
God). If you have additional questions or comments, I’d love to hear
from you. Just post a “Comment” below or e-mail me at silviusj@cedarville.edu
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