Tuesday, December 19, 2023

Christmas Greetings to Family and Friends

As another year draws to a close, we look forward to celebrating Christmas and the beginning of a New Year.  Our prayer is for sensitivity to each other, and to others, as John assumes new teaching responsibilities at Cedarville College, as Brad graduates from Cedarville High School and enters college, as Mindy enters her teen years, and as Abby labors to make our home a place of refreshment, rest, and hospitality
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So concluded the Silvius Christmas letter for 1987 as we purposed with a prayer for sensitivity to each other as our family of four faced the prospects of the New Year 1988, thirty-five years ago.  Those 35 years have seen Brad and Mindy find their marriage partners, establish their own homes and pursue meaningful professional careers.  We are humbly thankful to God for the privilege of having a son and daughter, blessed to see them grow in the love and grace of God and to experience their kind respect for, and patience toward, their mom and dad; and, more recently to one another in our growing family.

As we reflect on our 53 years of marriage and the many blessings Abby and I have experienced in our 76 years of life, the truth of 1 Corinthians 4: 7 is becoming more and more real to us: 
What do you have that God hasn’t given you?
And if everything you have is from God,
why boast as though it were not a gift?

It is in the spirit of this reminder from God who is the “Giver of every good and perfect gift” (James 1: 17) that we have written this Christmas letter—not to boast about our family, but rather, to share news of what great things God is doing in and through us and each of our loved ones.

Brad continues to serve as a housing loan officer for John Adams Mortgage Co. in Ann Arbor, Michigan; and, his wife Raquel continues her responsibilities as Program and Project Manager at
University of Michigan.  Together, they have continued to manage The Little Leaders Company which provides faith-based streaming media for toddlers.  During the past 2 years, Brad and Raquel have also become managers of a vacation rental unit in Florida.

Besides being a husband and father, Steve divides his energies between serving on the pastoral staff at
Southeast Church in Tallmadge, OH; working full-time with a handyman home painting service; and trying his skills in the realty business with his newly acquired license.  Mindy is completing the first year in her new position as Advanced Practice Provider with Wellbe Senior Medical in the Akron area.  We are blessed to watch the maturing of Mindy and Steve’s three children, our grandchildren, as summarized in the following paragraphs.

Our grandson, Caleb and his wife Soni enjoy their home in the Pittsburgh area near a hub from which Caleb as a trucker for
Papa John’s Pizza delivers fresh dough and fixings to pizza lovers in western PA and eastern Ohio.  As a relatively new homeowner, Caleb is learning handyman skills from his dad while Soni finds it a welcome break from her studies at Pittsburgh Technical College to decorate and prepare meals for the two of them and people such as their family who visit occasionally.

One of our family highlights in 2023 was the marriage of our older granddaughter, Kiara to John Basford.  This sweet couple is now establishing their home near North Canton.  Kiara continues her enrollment in college courses while working full time at a new start-up company,
Buckeye Brownies.  John enjoys his work as HR Associate with Amazon.  Both are active in their home church, Southeast Church in Tallmadge.

Della Rose, our younger granddaughter, is a sophomore at Cuyahoga Valley Christian Academy where she is currently enrolled in chemistry, history, Bible, and Spanish, among other courses.  We have recently enjoyed a Christmas choral program in which Della Rose sang as a member of the Concert Choral.  She loves animals, especially horses, and enjoys working part-time at
Pegasus Farm, Hartville, OH.

Another family highlight in 2023 was our family weekend retreat in August at an Airbnb near Medina, Ohio where we enjoyed games, hiking and wading in a nearby stream, good food, and catching up on family news in a cozy environment.
  Abby and I were also blessed once again to spend part of February in Florida with dear friends and family.


We are thankful for our home and neighborhood here in Wooster, Ohio.
  We have many great neighbors who represent diverse ages, beliefs, values, and vocations.  Opportunities to assist several of them in times of need, or to ask assistance from them, have helped us build friendships and to share our home, garden vegetables, flowers, and faith.  Meanwhile, we are mindful of the lasting bonds we share with dear friends in the Cedarville community and beyond, and we thank those of you who have cooperated in our limited ability to stay in touch.

We are thankful for our church, West Hill Baptist Church, and for our small group which now meets in our home weekly.
  John considers his accountability relationship with several godly men as a most blessed provision from our Heavenly Father.  Henry W. Longfellow’s lament, ’There is no peace on Earth,’ I said, now made famous in the hymn, “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day,” is becoming increasingly relevant as we see the increasing turmoil among nations; and, within our nation, churches, families, and even in our own minds.  Thankfully, God’s answer to this darkness plaguing all of us is the Light of the World, born on Christmas Day (Luke 4: 16-21).

Our own growth in the grace of God this year has been encouraged by both our blessings and our trials.
 We thank several of you who have invited our prayers and assistance as you have faced physical and spiritual trials.  We have not forgotten you and especially at this time of year.  Thankfully, our trials have been “momentary light afflictions.”  John’s back injury in June became a blessing with the help of 30 sessions at Paragon Physical Medicine where “Dr. Bryce” and his amazing team inspired John to continue with a daily stretching routine.  Abby is thankful that an October fall didn’t cause a fatal injury to her head, and she is learning to walk more carefully.

Thank you for reading our letter, and thanks to many of you who have reached out to us with Christmas and year-end greetings and news.
  Although you may not receive a mailed card from us, please know that we will be lifting each of you by name in prayer during the days ahead.  Meanwhile, we hope you will be blessed by the times you enjoy with family and friends, and in reflecting on God’s greatest Gift, Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace who came to help us, and is coming again.

Have a blessed Christmas and New Year,

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Thursday, December 14, 2023

Is Light Dimming and Darkness Winning? – 1. Christmas Contrasts

Christmas is a holiday of great contrasts.  Myriads of bright lights pierce the cold darkness of winter nights.  While many are joyfully decorating their homes, others mourn after a year of trouble and loss.  Some are merrily singing “Peace on Earth, Good Will Toward Men” while others remember family members or friends serving in the Armed Services in harm’s way.  Still others are praying for peace and reconciliation with family members or beloved friends.  Regardless of where we find ourselves within these contrasts, we can hope and pray for the Comfort and Joy found a meaningful celebration of Christmas.

Three Christmas Contrasts
I’m thinking of two Christmas contrasts that stand out, and a third one which is more subtle.  All three have immense implications for humanity.  

The first contrast is rooted at the heart of this holy celebration.  It is the infinitely great contrast of the Eternal God who determined in eternity past that His only begotten Son, Jesus, would empty Himself of heavenly radiance and glory and be clothed in human flesh to be born in a dark stable and then live in a corrupted, fallen world.  Jesus, the Savior of the world,
who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despised the shame of bearing our sin and dying in our place, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God (Hebrews 12: 2).  This infinite contrast stands at the heart of the Gospel, the “Good News message” of salvation to all who will come in humble faith to the Christ of Christmas.  This fact brings us to a second great Christmas contrast.


Most people who celebrate Christmas do so with lights—beautiful, colored lights, and the more the better.  But in sharp contrast, while multitudes of people are attracted to Christmas lights they ignore or turn their backs on Jesus Christ who is the “Light of the World” (John 1: 4-5 and 9: 5).  At the same time, multitudes celebrate Jesus’s birthday by exchanging gifts while they ignore or reject God’s greatest Gift.

The Gospel of John, Chapter 1, explains that Jesus Christ, the Word of God (literally meaning “Reasoning for Life” Click
HERE.), came to His own, and those who were His own did not receive Him (v. 11).  Later, in John 3: 19-21 (emphasis added), John explains that the Verdict is this: The Light has come into the world, but men loved the darkness rather than the Light because their deeds were evil.  Everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come into the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed.  But whoever practices the truth comes into the Light, so that it may be seen clearly that what He has done has been accomplished in God.” [To learn more, click HERE.]

The Bible gives us the detailed account of a loving God pursuing mankind who is caught in sin, fear, and darkness.  The contrast or gulf between Holy God and sinful man; and, between born again child of God and the lost person facing judgment are infinitely large.  Thankfully, God’s Son became the sacrifice for sin in our place, providing a “bridge” across the gulf to God for all who come to the Light.  The Apostle John wrote, …as many as received him, to them he gave power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God (John 1: 12-13) Later, in John 3, the Apostle explains that Jesus did not come into the world to judge the world (v. 17) but that the world might be saved from eternal judgment through faith in Him (v. 18).

When the sinner repents and turns from dependence upon his or her own merits to trust the finished work of Christ on the Cross, God does the rest. The God who pursues us through His Spirit says His Word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart, that is, the word of faith we are proclaiming: that if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with your heart, you believe and are justified, and with your mouth you confess and are saved (Romans 10: 8-10, emphasis added).

Condemnation for sin is cancelled and the believer receives the righteousness of Christ (Romans 1: 17).  Without the convicting power of God’s Spirit and Word (John 16: 5-15) we remain dead in our trespasses and sin (Ephesians 2: 1).  But this stark contrast is followed by a third more subtle contrast.  So subtle that especially Christians may either underestimate its importance or be completely unaware of it.  The remainder of this article will be addressed to professing Christians, those who profess to have been saved by faith as described earlier.

Real Faith Works!
The subtle contrast to which we now refer is between what we as Christians claim to believe and what we actually live out as our profession of faith and practice.  James, half-brother of Jesus, described a “profession of faith in action” as an active faith that is visible through good works in contrast to a “dead faith.”  According to James 2: 14-26, a “profession of faith” is only genuine and real when it is expressed in both our words and works.

The seriousness of this subtle contrast cannot be underestimated for two reasons.  First, while we are saved by faith and not works, we should question the sincerity of our profession if there are no works, or “fruit” in our lives (See 1 John 3, 4).  Second, if we profess to be a Christian but are not really “born again” as God’s child and have no desire to obey and please God, we walk about the world as idolaters in that we do not represent the one true God.  Instead, we are “walking false idols” whose words and actions are those of a false god.  Many Christian leaders have remarked that the greatest threat to Christianity and to the spiritual condition of the Church worldwide is not the attacks from pagan or secular forces from outside.  Instead, it is from those within the Church who profess Christ but poorly represent Him by their lifestyles.  I write this with fear and trembling at the thought of how much I can easily slide into this pattern.

Many who are outside the community of the Christian faith place their “faith” in “good works” to justify their acceptance by God or another higher power.  Meanwhile, genuine Christians understand that it is by grace you have been saved through faith, and this not from yourselves; it is the gift of God, not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance as our way of life (Ephesians 2: 8-9).  We are saved by faith in the work of Christ, not by our own works.  But there’s more!  Once we are saved, God’s Spirit works within us to give us the desire to live pleasing to Him.  Otherwise, we can become spiritually and emotionally weary like a person who is too tired to put up Christmas decorations and finds no joy in turning on the lights.  There are times that I identify with this condition.  Has this ever described you?

Real Faith Is Alive in Us!

Christ-followers can drift into dark corners in mind, body, and spirit when we fail to abide in fellowship with our Savior and Helper through time in prayer, in His Word, and in fellowship with other believers.  We can all have our “sloughs of despond” like Christian in Pilgrim’s Progress, but our salvation by faith ought to be real and evident because we continually yield to God’s Word and the indwelling Spirit who produces the fruit of Love, Joy, Peace, etc. (John 15: Galatians 5: 22-23) and good works (James 2: 26). 

The Apostle Paul reinforces this notion in Philippians 2: 12b-13 (Amplified Bible, emphasis added), that Christ-followers should continue to work out your salvation [that is, cultivate it, bring it to full effect, actively pursue spiritual maturity] with awe-inspired fear and trembling [using serious caution and critical self-evaluation to avoid anything that might offend God or discredit the name of Christ].  For it is [not your strength, but it is] God who is effectively at work in you, both to will and to work [that is, strengthening, energizing, and creating in you the longing and the ability to fulfill your purpose] for His good pleasure.   

These powerful words written by Paul as a prisoner of Rome and “prisoner of Christ,” describe the life of a true disciple of Christ.  Do these words strike a resonant chord within your soul and spirit?  If so, thank God for evidence of the Life of His Spirit within you.

The Apostle Paul mentally understood that the call of Jesus Christ meant to deny himself, and take up his cross daily and follow Christ (Luke 9: 23; 1 Corinthians 15: 31).  This self-denial is possible as we yield our will to God’s Spirit who works within us as our Teacher (John 14: 26) to illuminate the “living, powerful Word of God” (Hebrews 4: 12).  When we “abide in” (yield to and obey) God’s Word in this way, the Word of God becomes incarnate and visible in our manner of life.  As Paul testified, it is no longer I who live but Christ lives in me (Galatians 2: 20).  Although we have this treasure in earthen vessels (2 Corinthians 4: 7), the Light of the World, Jesus Christ, will shine through our lives into a dark world as the character of His life becomes evident in our words and deeds. 

Real Faith Realizes “Costly Grace”
Unfortunately, there is abundant evidence that more and more professing Christians have become lukewarm and are “dimming their lights.” Indications all around suggest that our culture is growing spiritually darker and corrupted for lack of the witness by us who claim to be Christ-followers.  We need to regularly remind ourselves of the Grace of God that saved us, and be reminded by our time in God’s Word, and in times of being challenged from the Scriptures by our friends in Christ, and by strong preaching of the Word from our pastors.

Fortunately, there are a number of modern prophets today who are sounding the alarm.  For example, Eric Metaxas has become a contemporary voice of reason to the Church as an author, speaker, and radio/TV host.  Metaxas has studied the life of Dietrich Bonhoeffer and has written his biography, Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy (Thomas Nelson, 2011).  In this book and in a more recent follow-up book, Letter to the American Church (Salem Books, 2022), Metaxas draws alarming parallels between Christianity in Germany that allowed the rise of Adolph Hitler to power in the 1930’s and the trends in American Christendom and our culture today.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer was a German pastor who had become a Christian in 1931 near the time when Adolph Hitler was leading the Nazi take-over of Germany.  Bonhoeffer is famous for his preaching, writing, and testimony as one who took seriously the call to discipleship.  To Bonhoeffer, we are saved by faith which is a “gift of God” (Ephesians 2: 8) but our salvation by grace is only genuine when we recognize the great costliness of that grace!  God so loved the world that He gave the costliest Gift imaginable—the very Life of His Son (John 3: 16).

While He was teaching His real-life “discipling class,” Jesus said to His disciples, “The Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected by the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed and be raised up on the third day.”  Then, Jesus underscored what the “cost of discipleship” would be upon them, saying (emphasis added):  If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross daily and follow MeFor whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake, he is the one who will save it (Luke 9: 23-24).

Jesus’s call to discipleship embodied in these Scriptures, is the basis of Bonhoeffer’s powerful teaching on “costly grace” contained in part in his book, The Cost of Discipleship.  He is quoted as saying, “When Christ calls a man, He bids him come and die.  …we [surrender] our lives to death. Thus, it begins; the cross is not the terrible end to an otherwise god-fearing and happy life, but it meets us at the beginning of our communion with Christ.”

Let’s Don’t “Dim Our Lights”
If you are still reading, thank you for staying with me.  By now, you may be on a guilt trip and feeling as if you are a failure.  But fear not, because you are not alone.  God’s Spirit who has been leading me in recent reading and in the writing this blog is convicting me of by these very same words.  If our hearts are numb to the sharpness of God’s Word, we have reason to fear.  Either we are not His child, or we have simply become distracted by other priorities and our ears have become dull of hearing.

As a professing Christian, do you feel numb, complacent, and preferring a dark corner; or do you feel convicted that your light is dim and your heart is lukewarm toward God?  If we feel convicted, we should be glad we are spiritually alive enough to “feel” God’s Spirit cutting away at our complacency and numbness; and, then causing our hearts to warm and resonate with His truth.  Jesus said, …he who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds may be manifested as having been wrought in God (John 3: 21).

What a great Christmas contrast:  Hearts and homes of Christ-followers glowing with the Grace and Truth radiating out into a dark world in which people are lost and stumbling in the darkness and even hating the Light.  Jesus calls His disciples “the light of the world” in Matthew 5: 14-16.  He added that no one lights a lamp without placing it in a prominent place to light its surroundings.  Likewise, we who have received the Light of Truth ought not to dim our lights, but rather, to honor Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence (1 Peter 3: 15).  May our lights burn brightly this Christmas and our Hope be encouraging and winsome.

Christmas Gift Suggestion
In spite of this prophecy of Christ coming as the Light of the World, the lights of Christmas are still surrounded with so much darkness and so many lonely people.  Henry Wadsworth Longfellow lamented the contrast between the promise of “Peace on Earth, good will to men” and the reality of the dark world in which he lived.  And so, Longfellow expressed his lament in his poem, “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day,” with the following lines:
And in despair I bowed my head:
“There is no peace on earth,” I said,
“For hate is strong, and mocks the song
Of peace on earth, good will to men.”


As I have suggested in this article, Longfellow’s lament is still appropriate for our day.  But what is my “Christmas gift suggestion?”  While purchase of a DVD of the Sight and Sound movie, “I Heard the Bells,” would be make a good gift, an even better gift would be a copy of Eric Metaxas’s book Letter to the American Church, mentioned above.  As I conclude, let me whet your appetite for reading it if you haven’t already.

Metaxas believes that America, while not intrinsically exceptional, has been sovereignly chosen by God to “hold the torch of liberty for the world, and that the Church is central to our doing this.”1  However, Metaxas’s thesis in Letter to the American Church is that the silence of the Church in America in the face of moral and cultural decline places the Church on the same path to tragedy as the Church in Germany that failed to stand against the rise of Hitler and the horrible reign of his Nazi regime. 

In Letter to the American Church, Metaxas gives four teachings of the Bible that are misunderstood by many professing American Christians.  I have summarized each of them below. 

“Costly Grace” or “Cheap Grace”

Do those of us who claim to be Christians affirm the genuineness of our faith by “working out our salvation” with the motivation and passion of God’s Holy Spirit (if He is) living and active within us, producing much fruit and so, proving to be Christ’s disciples?

“Idol of Evangelism”
Have we accepted the call of the Church to evangelism while diminishing the importance of discipleship, including the “costly discipleship” of responding to the call of Christ to “speak the truth in love” even at the risk of offending family and friends, or out of fear of losing the favor of church members or potential converts?  [Do we truly love if we withhold the truth?]

“Be Ye Not Political”
Does the biblical call to preach and share the Gospel of Christ and “make disciples of all nations” require that Christian pastors and laypersons avoid addressing political issues?

“Religious at All Cost”
Are there situations in which we are biblically justified in disobeying one of God’s commands in order to promote a larger moral or ethical goal?  For example, telling a lie or participating in peaceful civil disobedience?

In conclusion, if you would rather not be provoked to think more deeply about how Christ would have you respond to His call to be salt and light in an increasingly confused and darkening world, please don’t read Letter to the American Church.  As Rev. Erwin Lutzer concluded, “This book is like a bucket of cold water thrown into the face of a sleeping church.” If you choose to read, I hope you will be challenged to prayerfully think more deeply about the cost you are willing to pay to be an obedient disciple of Christ. 

Care to Comment?
If you have questions or comments, we’d love to hear from you.  I am particularly interested in how you respond to the concerns raised by Eric Metaxas after you have read his book.  Just post a “Comment” below or e-mail to silviusj@gmail.com

Maybe you are left with a sense of confusion, uncertainty, and even fear.  If you have never encountered the “Good News” or Gospel, let us help.   The “Good News” is summarized in an outline called “Steps to Peace with God” (Click
HERE.).  It explains God’s love, our predicament (sin and separation from God), what Jesus has done to address our predicament, and what you can do by faith to receive God’s righteousness (right standing with a Holy God). 

1Footnote:
Metaxas is quick to add that “when God chooses anyone [whether a nation or individual] …it is never something to be celebrated, as though the one chosen has won a contest.  Quite the contrary: it is a grave and fearsome responsibility…[a] most solemn duty [that] should make us tremble.”