Last night,
my 6th ranked, West Virginia University Mountaineer football team
was greatly humbled in defeat by the Iowa State Cyclones in Big 12 action. After watching the 30-14 loss, I went to bed
very disappointed. My sadness returned when
I awakened this morning and realized that it wasn’t a bad dream. However, very soon, my thoughts became
Spirit-directed as I realized how thankful I ought to be to begin another day
of life.
Instead of a painful memory, the loss of the football game by WVU became a metaphor and a lesson for my own life. Although I am far from an expert football analyst, it seemed clear to me that the 5-0 Mountaineer football team lost miserably to a 2-3 team because the Cyclones were successful in moving WVU away from their game plan in three ways.
Will Grier has nearly 2,000 offensive yards and 22 TD passes. |
A good quarterback leads because he comes prepared, exudes confidence, and demonstrates command of his offence in the face of the opposition. It is not for me to judge what caused Will's poor performance, but I am confident that he will bounce back next week. As I try to imagine how painful it must be for Grier to watch the videos of the game, I know from experience how many times I have buckled under the pressures of life. Maybe I was unprepared for the situation, or insensitive to others, or too proud to act or react in a humble way. I may have tried to protect my own interests or reputation rather than humbly giving honor to God or another person. I cannot judge Will Grier, but in many of my cases, the source of problems is my pride. Proverbs repeatedly warns us against a proud heart. Proverbs 29: 23 states, A man's pride shall bring him low; But he that is of a lowly spirit shall obtain honor.
Second, the Cyclone defense forced our quarterback to move “out of the pocket.” Will Grier, like many quarterbacks, execute their best passing game when they stay in the pocket, a wall of protection that is formed around him by the offensive line. The pocket is a safe place where the quarterback can stand, get a good read on the field, choose the best receiver, and deliver a pass that is on target. However, in last night’s game, the Iowa State defense repeatedly attacked the offensive line so that Grier was forced to move out of the pocket where he was less effective in throwing, having to avoid being sacked.
Quarterback Will Grier during one of too many sacks by ISU. |
Usually, the decisions of a quarterback are subject to input from a coach on the sidelines with occasional input from leaders in his offense. All of his decisions must be made with respect to the rules of the game and situation at hand. He is not free to operate as a “Lone Ranger” who takes matters into his own hands. Likewise, when I see an opportunity to encourage or otherwise minister God’s truth and love to another person, I must be careful not to run ahead of God’s plan and purposes. However, I have sometimes “left the pocket” of God’s protection, a pocket formed by biblical principles and people whom God has provided to help me. When I have done this, I cannot “execute” in a way that honors God or that shows responsibility to my wife, family, friends, and others. Then, it is time for "replaying the videos" of my actions, and where necessary, to repent and make confession of my sin, and pursue forgiveness from God and the one(s) I have wronged.
For example, during my “retirement” chapter of life, I have been afforded more opportunities communicate with family and friends. Some of my family are in situations brought on by poor decisions in earlier years. I have watched some who have encountered illness and then died, not knowing what their eternal future will be. Lest I act in disrespect of another person or seek to influence anyone in my own power, I have offered up many prayers for myself and for them. Yet, I still find it difficult to strike a balance between desiring to share my faith and the principles of life God reveals in Scripture while at the same time not being so zealous that I move “out of the pocket” of God’s order and timing for me. The Apostle Paul writes (emphasis mine),
For the love of Christ compels us, since we have reached this conclusion: If one died for all, then all died. And he died for all so that those who live should no longer live for themselves, but for the one who died for them and was raised (2 Corinthians 5: 14-15).
Although I believe my “compulsion” is a genuine derivative of God’s Spirit at work in me, I must learn to be a “team player” with Him while listening to the counsel of others. Just as a successful quarterback earns the respect of his teammates, so I must remember my first responsibility is to God and to my wife and family. Without their respect and without wise leadership in my home, my usefulness in God’s plan is in jeopardy.
Finally, I realized a third lesson from offensive football. West Virginia quarterback Grier must do even more than stay cool under pressure while he depends on his offensive line to protect the pocket. He must also be discerning as he looks for eligible receivers. Last night, the Cyclone defense neutralized our receivers by exerting tremendous coverage. Hence, Grier was delayed in releasing his passes; and, this delay allowed the pocket to collapse, leaving him open to being sacked.
Again, the Apostle Paul expresses his zeal for sharing the love of Christ, in 1 Corinthians 9: 22 (NLT):
When I am with those who are weak, I share their weakness, for I want to bring the weak to Christ. Yes, I try to find common ground with everyone, doing everything I can to save some.
Like a quarterback, my zeal must show a proper balance between “passing” the Gospel message to family and friends while recognizing that not all loved ones are necessarily “eligible receivers,” at least at this point in time. Like a quarterback, I may want to yell to receivers, “get open,” but I must remember that only God’s Spirit can open the hearts of others to receive. As Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 4: 6 (NASB),
For God, who said, "Light shall shine out of darkness," is the One who has shone in our hearts to give the Light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ.
I must remember not to be a “little God” or “little Providence” in the lives of others. As the psalmist realized, only God can change the heart of a person:
No man can by any means redeem his brother,
Or give to God a ransom for him—
For the redemption of his soul is costly,
And he should cease trying forever— (Psalm 49: 7-8)
In summary, my alma mater’s football loss will have some redeeming value for me, and maybe also for you the reader, if we are able to remember and apply several lessons from football strategies. First, we must realize our total dependence on God if we are to have respected leadership in our homes and among family and friends. We must spend time with God through prayer and reading of His Word so that we will be calm and poised under day-to-day pressures. We must also put on the armor God provides (e.g. belt of truth, breastplate of God’s righteousness, helmet of salvation) so that His “pocket of protection” is secured around us against the fiery darts of Satan, the passions of our flesh, and the deceitfulness of our mind. Finally, we must discern eligible receivers lest we run ahead of God’s Spirit, rely on our own power and plans, and end up disrespecting those who are not ready or yet called unto salvation. The Apostle Peter’s charge is a fitting end to these lessons learned from a football team on their night of a disappointing loss:
Have no fear of them, nor be troubled, but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3: 14b-15 ESV).
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