Thanksgiving is a unique holiday—one that invites us to
reflect on the blessings we have received during the past year. Christians have the special blessing of knowing
personally the One True God from Whom all blessings flow. An intimate relationship with God is made
possible by faith in Jesus Christ, and nurtured properly through the spiritual
disciplines of prayer, regular nourishment from the Word of God, and fellowship
with the people of God.
A healthy relationship with God produces, among other
virtues, the virtue of contentment (Hebrews 13:5). Contentment is an attitude that flows out of
a thankful heart. Our Thanksgiving holiday
can be an occasion to enjoy the blessings of family, friends, and food; but, it
is also a time to nurture a heart of thankfulness and contentment by reflecting
on the Person and provision of God.
As a Christian, at times I have experienced the joy of
contentment; but I have also experienced periods of discontentment. For
me, and perhaps for many, discontentment is a “default attitude.” Contentment must be forged and refreshed daily
in the midst of a culture that promotes discontentment through media and social
pressures. Under the guise of maintaining social status,
improving efficiency, staying current, or “treating ourselves to what we
deserve”, we are urged to buy the newest editions, models, or styles “while
they last.”
How does a person find contentment? The Apostle Paul states, If we have food and covering, with these we shall be content (1 Timothy
6:8). Paul indicates that in Roman
culture, like our contemporary culture, contentment was not a default condition. He testifies, Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever
circumstances I am (Philippians
4:11). Paul “learned contentment” by
practicing submission to spiritual disciplines such as we have noted above. This is not a contentment, as some have
chosen to pursue, through an acetic lifestyle of abstinence from ‘pleasures’ that
are seen as hindrances to reaching spiritual goals.
So, how can we apply a Christian perspective to the holiday
season? Traditionally, Thanksgiving holiday has been squeezed on either side by
two commercialized holidays, Halloween and Christmas; but, at least the two
adjacent holidays have been separated in time from Thanksgiving by a month or more. However, with each passing year, increasing
numbers of retail stores are opening earlier on “Black Friday” or in the
late evening hours of Thanksgiving Day itself.
Some are reacting to Black Friday by observing “Buy Nothing
Day.” Not a bad idea. But, I wonder what the observers of “Buy
Nothing” choose to do instead. Maybe Maggi Dawn’s blog entry , “Black Friday: Buy
Nothing Day” points
us in the right direction. She writes:
Last Friday, just before we began Reading Week at
the [Yale] Divinity School, my team and I organized a Cafe Eucharist, the theme
of which was Thanksgiving and Giving Thanks. One of the threads in the service
was the disconnect between gratitude (thanks for what we have) and consumerism
(the goal to get more, more, more). It feels somewhat urgent to me this week to
resist the temptation to go shopping over the next few days. Half price
practically everything is really tempting, especially just before Christmas.
But I feel I would be paying with my soul, not just my dollars. We are going
shopping today for the food we need, and firewood, and a tank of petrol/gas. No
more. Then we are going to spend four days playing, watching movies, walking up
some hills, visiting friends, eating enough but not to excess, reading by the
fire, and enjoying the luxury of sleeping late in the mornings. And giving
thanks. Anyone want to join us?
How about you? How
have you spent Thanksgiving, and then Black Friday this year? I have enjoyed being with our daughter and
family, and precious time with our grandson, Caleb, and granddaughters, Kiara
and Della. Of course, they were
gracious to allow me to finish this blog entry while watching the West Virginia
Mountaineers defeat the Pitt Panthers in the “Backyard Brawl” 21-20.
In our October entry, “Our
Stewardship Is about God, Not Us,” we emphasized that godly stewardship is
grounded in an awareness that The reverent and worshipful fear of the Lord
is the beginning and the principal and choice part of knowledge (Proverbs
1:7, Amplified Bible). Celebrating
Thanksgiving affords us the opportunity to apply the important ingredient of “giving
thanks” to the a life of “reverent and worshipful fear of the Lord…” May God help us to use both Thanksgiving and Black Friday to develop lives that honor God in a consumer culture every day of the year.
